Friday, March 14, 2008

Erica said it too!

Nothing lasts forever, so live it up, drink it down, laugh it off, avoid the bullshit, take chances, never have regrets because at one point everything you did was exactly what you wanted.

I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so you can eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
-Marilyn Monroe

Don't make somebody a priority who only makes you an option...
every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

Never regret anything because at one time... it was exactly what you wanted.
Anything worth wanting is worth waiting for

"The only people you need in your life are the ones who prove they need you in theirs" ♥

Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.

RIP Johnny Boy.
December 26, 1986- November 30, 2007
You will always be in my heart.

Always be yourself, because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind.

An original is always worth more than a copy.


I am who i am... your approval is not needed.

Friday, March 7, 2008

Never to Old for a Lullaby~ In memory of a dear friend ~

My dear friend ~
I have lit this candle for your love ~ his sudden passing saddens me so ~ I shall grieve with you, I shall pray you have the strength to keep on truckin!

This lullaby is for you to sing to him ~ yes you are old ~ and death comes when least expected. You are never to old for a lullaby.


Remember, you can always call your neighbor in the middle of the night and she shall comfort you as she did I when Jon passed.




Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Up above the world so high,
Like a diamond in the sky.
Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are!

He is just fine! He has Jon to keep him busy ~

Look up as he looks down at you, keeping you safe, telling you that each day gets that much more closer to remembering the good, all the Joy & Sparkle you brought to each other, and all the yelling about you spending money on big ticket items!

I love you sweetie with all my heart. I am here too, to always give you a hug if you need one.
Breathe, know that you have the support, just ask for it!

Monday, March 3, 2008

In good times & bad times, this is what Friends are for!

Dear Vonna,

My DH, will be just fine, it will just take a long time for him to recover.
YIKES!!!!!!!

I am so glad that you are taking a short trip to a warm place. I think it will do you good to be with people that you enjoy being with and that also enjoy the same thing as you do.

I understand what you are saying about family, but don't loose hope. They are big enough to take care of themselves especially when you need a break.

As you know everyone grieves differently; it will take a long time for the sting to decrease. Be around positive people that will encourage you.

I know that you miss Jon. He was a huge part of your life. It is a big hole in your heart that will never heal completely.

Your voice will be heard, if it doesn't happen the way you want, it may be in another way. You just don't know right now. Something good will come from this sad time.

Love ya,
anonymous!

I dedicate this to you my girl friends ~ So g/f's who is who! Laughing I am!