What would you do?

I received this from a little girl who isn't so little anymore, she is all grown up with children of her own, yep I used to babysit for her, she was my eldest boy's friend when we lived in Arizona. I watched her grown and grown she did. Into a beautiful woman, into a wonderful friend.

10 people I was to pass this to!

So I send it to all who read this I normally don't read these, but this struck a cord  thank you my friend for sending this to me

What would you do if your best friend died 
tomorrow and you never got to tell them how you felt I just wanted to say, even if I never talk 
to you again in my life, you are special 
to me and you have made a difference in 
my life.

I look up to you, respect 
you, and truly cherish you. 



Send this to all your friends, no matter how 
often you talk, or how close you are, 
and send it to the person who sent it to 
you. 



Let old friends know you haven't
forgotten them, and tell new
friends you never will.

Remember, everyone
 needs a friend; some day you might
feel like you have NO FRIENDS at all

Remember this and take comfort in knowing somebody out there cares about you
and always will..

In times of trouble

In times of need

If you are
feeling sad
You can count on me

I will give you a wink

Until you smile give you a hug

And stand by
your side.

I'll be there for you till the end, I'll always and forever, be your 
friend!




Never to Old for a Lullaby~ In memory of a dear friend ~

My dear friend ~
I have lit this candle for your love ~ his sudden passing saddens me so ~ I shall grieve with you, I shall pray you have the strength to keep on truckin!

This lullaby is for you to sing to him ~ yes you are old ~ and death comes when least expected. You are never to old for a lullaby.


Remember, you can always call your neighbor in the middle of the night and she shall comfort you as she did I when Jon passed.

Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Up above the world so high,
Like a diamond in the sky.
Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are!

He is just fine! He has Jon to keep him busy ~

Look up as he looks down at you, keeping you safe, telling you that each day gets that much more closer to remembering the good, all the Joy & Sparkle you brought to each other, and all the yelling about you spending money on big ticket items!

I love you sweetie with all my heart. I am here too, to always give you a hug if you need one.
Breathe, know that you have the support, just ask for it!

In good times & bad times, this is what Friends are for!

Dear Vonna,

My DH, will be just fine, it will just take a long time for him to recover.
YIKES!!!!!!!

I am so glad that you are taking a short trip to a warm place. I think it will do you good to be with people that you enjoy being with and that also enjoy the same thing as you do.

I understand what you are saying about family, but don't loose hope. They are big enough to take care of themselves especially when you need a break.

As you know everyone grieves differently; it will take a long time for the sting to decrease. Be around positive people that will encourage you.

I know that you miss Jon. He was a huge part of your life. It is a big hole in your heart that will never heal completely.

Your voice will be heard, if it doesn't happen the way you want, it may be in another way. You just don't know right now. Something good will come from this sad time.

Love ya,
anonymous!

I dedicate this to you my girl friends ~ So g/f's who is who! Laughing I am!

"All You Need Is Love"

"There's nothing you can do that can't be done.
Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game.
It's easy."

"It's easy ~ Love is all you need ~ Love is all you need"
~ Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah~ `Beatles..

Music ~ I almost forgot about the music..
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Acceptance ~
I need to sometimes reach out and connect with an old friend.
We used to live in Arizona together, where Jon was born.

She wrote me back ~

Vonna,
Our hearts and prayers will continue to be with you through your grief. Jonathan was a special child – I remember holding and cuddling him when he was a baby. Please know that my Darling Husband and I are here for you with anything you may need. Please do not hesitate to call – even if it is just to cry or vent.