Showing posts with label acceptance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label acceptance. Show all posts

Thursday, October 2, 2008

It hurts ~

It's starting ~ the reality is really hitting the kids - and it's okay, it just takes time.

"Its suppose to get better but day by day it get worse.
I'm suppose to miss you because I'm at college and your 170 miles north of me
not because you a gazillion and ten miles above me."

Saturday, February 23, 2008

"All You Need Is Love"

"There's nothing you can do that can't be done.
Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game.
It's easy."

"It's easy ~ Love is all you need ~ Love is all you need"
~ Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah~ `Beatles..

Music ~ I almost forgot about the music..
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Acceptance ~
I need to sometimes reach out and connect with an old friend.
We used to live in Arizona together, where Jon was born.

She wrote me back ~

Vonna,
Our hearts and prayers will continue to be with you through your grief. Jonathan was a special child – I remember holding and cuddling him when he was a baby. Please know that my Darling Husband and I are here for you with anything you may need. Please do not hesitate to call – even if it is just to cry or vent.

Sunday, January 27, 2008

Sunday -

It's a sunny day today and for that I am grateful -

I have met a few new people in my life that share the same experience of grieving the loss of a child. I truly believe in my heart that no matter the circumstance in which you child has passed - whether i be accidental, suicide - or even homicide we all share a common bond. We all can help each other move to the next level, remember our children, and live our life as they would want us to -

I don't have to accept the fact now that my Jon is gone, I only have to learn to live with that fact.

He will always be with me, watch over me, and take care of me just in a different way that's all.

I wish you all who read this a "Sunny Happy Day"

Monday, January 7, 2008

5 Stages of Grief

Denial
Bargaining
Anger
Despair
Acceptance ~ Maybe a little today ~

I found this last night on google ~
2003 Triton Award Contest

First Place Group
3rd period Printing/Graphic Arts Class Level II Lithographic Presswork
Kyle Bernicky
Steven Cavaligos
Benjamin Cohen
Kevin Kamen
Gregory Kim
Edward Maciejczyk
Sean Madigan
Bradley Marshall
Jonathan McEachern
Joshua Melinger
Dmitriy Ofrikhter
Koonal Patel
Kirill Pustilnik
Shane Serafin
MichaelWeinstein